If you follow my videos on www.youtube.com/hairandmakeuphowto then you already know the big news!! My wife and I are soo excited and so happy to be announcing this we have waited a few years for this and we are so happy and so excited!!
I’m just going to say it…. WE’RE PREGNANT!!!!
I want to share our little journey with you all so that you can know our background a little bit!
We have been together for just about 5 years, We met in high school when I was 16 and we have basically been together ever since. She is my soul mate and I feel so completely blessed to have found her and been with her so early on in my life. I’m not saying everything is always perfect and sunshine and rainbows but we work together and I love her more and more. We got married August 4th 2008 in San Diego, on Pacific Beach at sunset!! It was so romantic and was the happiest day of my life…until now!
We decided after we got married to try to have a child with a known donor (that’s what we felt more comfortable with) so we saw a doctor and had him show my wife how to basically do the “procedure” at home so that we could be comfortable and more intimate. We do/did have a known donor who basically gave his “specimen” to us and we would use a needle-less syringe with a tube on the end to insert it. It wasn’t working at home after a few months so I started freaking out and taking all natural fertility pills. I took those for about 6 months and it still wasn’t working so I stopped and we took a break my wife actually got into a bad car accident in august of ’09 she had broken her neck and was in ICU for a week she got out and we stopped for 6 months while she was recovering.
We started to try again around Jan of ’10 and we just were trying by tracking my ovulation. I tracked off and on like every other month to try to relax myself and eventually I just gave up on that we tried for a few more months and then we were going to go back and see the doctor. We decided to try for 2 more months then go to the dr and october we were just so fed up we just decided to completely relax and not think about it not care not really “care” cause after this month we were going to go to the dr anyway so we could get answers.
Well it finally took and I knew it from the moment it happened it was just different it was crazy then like a week later I had spotting which never happens that early for my cycle so it was odd and it was just really light and barely anything so i figured it was implantation bleeding and then I was cramping so I figured my cycle was coming. Well on Halloween we went over to my moms and I was eating candy like crazy which I rarely do even near my cycle.
I thought there were just so many odd things that I had to be pregnant so I went home found a pregnancy test from a few months back took it and it immediately showed up positive and it wasn’t even first morning urine or anything. So we ran out and got digital test to make sure we weren’t seeing anything I took another one that night and it said yes! and I waited to take the 3rd test the next morning and it said yes again so I went to the dr and the dr confirmed it!
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Congratulations! It is a helluva journey. My wife is in the middle of her fifth month. Check out our blog, it has an African American lesbian focus, but the experiences are Universal. Happy Holiday.
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thanks!! I am so excited congrats on your wifes pregancy thats excitng!! I’d love to check out your blog thank you so much for the link!